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There’s something I’ve been wondering for a while: If MTF people still identified as their birth...
tracycoyle comments on May 9, 2020:
The biggest issue people seem to have is 'being deceived', so just dressing would seem to be LESS acceptable.
So I wanted to chime in based on your last video cause it was so interesting.
tracycoyle comments on Apr 22, 2020:
I am most certainly bi. I realized that putting 1/2 the population "out of bounds" due to biology or society or ...whatever criteria, limited ME. I am interested in the person - less with the genitals, but have certainly learned to appreciate and enjoy both versions.
I spent 15 years identifying as a lesbian before I realized I was trans.
tracycoyle comments on Apr 22, 2020:
Consider 'classical liberal' if you want to evaluate politically. I would be considered 'trans' but don't identify as such, nor consider myself part of the community. Glad you were able to understand yourself better. When we try to conform, even as a non-conformist, we tend to hide what/who we really are. Being honest with yourself, about yourself, regardless of the labels, however those labels are defined, will lead to longterm happiness (or at least the chance for it).
Does anyone else ever feel like giving up?
tracycoyle comments on Apr 22, 2020:
I transitioned in the late 80s/early 90s (6 years) before having surgery. I don't consider myself trans as I've been my gender for longer than 'the other'! The first year SUCKS, it gets better. But by the 4th/5th year, your life should be pretty stable and ...DAMN can we PLEASE get this over already??!?? Over 30 years, I occasionally get clocked. I have long since given up caring. I am a smart mouth - meaning what comes out is actually, smart, but also quippy! I don't give people any authority over my life so I seldom answer a 'question about my gender' with a straight answer. "Are you a lesbian or a trans, sex, ual?" It was a really old lady! I answered, "My partner was a lesbian." "Oh, that's nice dear." End of discussion. Life is easier now, but when it is BAD, it tends to make people think it is about them. Its not. It's about the people making it harder. I don't care what people call me. My identity is self-aware, self-validated, and self-sufficient. Keep your head up.

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