Hi Arielle! You mentioned in one of your videos that you tended to be my physically attracted to bisexual woman as opposed to lesbians. I've noticed the same thing about myself (I'm bi). Do you know why that might be? I'm genuinely curious
I have found that attraction (FOR ME) is not objective, and can vary. I have a certain arrogant preference for really smart women, but my physical type preferences run from tiny/petite/gymnast types to FBB Amazons. I think it has to do with how I perceive a woman's personal confidence and assertiveness. I have made a few spectacular errors, of course, and more than once found myself attracted to someone as far to the lesbian side of the scale as I am to the straight male side. My personal conclusion has been that trying to really understand my subjective responses to women is just a good way to make myself crazier. I just accept any such attraction and drive on. For lots of reasons, I ignore the attraction as far as can be proven as doing anything about it is likely to be unwise, but that's a different issue.