I dated a liberal now I feel like my brain needs a shower. All I can say WTF was I thinking? I was alone for quite some time and was an Incel and need a jump start to get back in to a healthy relationship. Now to figure out how to make a good relationship happen?
Learn about spotting red flags in people (plenty of good material on YouTube). There are many narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths out there (especially on the left), but they all have telling habits, mannerisms and even sayings. Spotting these red flags will help you avoid a lot of drama and misery and teach you how to handle these sorts.
You can pretty much predict what you're going to catch by where you fish. To use a crass metaphor, stop fishing near the outlet of a sewage treatment plant.
Instead, look for places that encourage values like honesty, fidelity and family formation. Check out churches. Check out conservative clubs. There's always eHarmony (they have a very good success rate).