Are you victimizing yourself?? Thank you for your service!!
You got it??
If I don't see myself as a victim, then I can't be a victim. People who victimize themselves are often in a state of self pity/depression and fear/paranoia. Or they're putting it on for some sort of gain they could otherwise not make based on merit (grifters). True victims don't whine and capitalise off whatever it is that they're a victim off.