Dear Arielle. Loved your last video. I completely disagree with the position taken by the two therapists you interviewed. They appeared to conflate sexual orientation with general human sexuality. While they didn't seem to be doing so with an agenda in mind, their reasoning is often used by men as a justification to pursue lesbians.
It's so weird how that guy said that what she's saying is the same vein as "calling a dude gay if he hugs another man for too long." A reasonable person would not think so, lmao. I'd call that dude gay if he was gleefully sucking dick, just like I'm gonna call that lady bi while she's gleefully sucking dick.