"But over the past several decades, the preaching that has dominated church pulpits and the broadcasts of America’s televangelists has delivered a non-stop barrage of “Me First” theology. The emphasis has shifted from a spirit of redeemed man living sacrificially for his Savior to a spirit of a religious man living sanctimoniously for himself. God is not One to be blessed; he is one who must bless. God is not One to command; he is one to be commanded. God is not One Who expects our obedience to Him; he is one we expect to obey us. We do not live to please God; he lives to please us."
[chuckbaldwinlive.com]
Thankfully, there are still many exceptions to this type of preaching around, but we seem to be in the minority.